Thursday, May 28, 2009

… And Then I Blinked

Just yesterday—it seems—I discovered my little daughter Rachel sneaking candy from a hidden Halloween stash. She adored anything sweet, as I think you can tell by this joyful, sticky photo of her devouring (and wearing) her favorite treats.

… and then I blinked.

Gone is the little pinafore and the bow on her head.
Gone is the sticky hand clutching the lollipop.
Gone is the mischievous little child I remember.

I blinked, and suddenly my Rachel is a beautiful, smart, talented young lady—celebrating her Sweet 16 just last week.

Rachel is now driving (eeks!) and dating (double eeks!) and I have to say how very proud I am of the woman she is becoming: she’s kind yet independent, open to new ideas but steadfast in her values, and she is choosing great friends and worthwhile activities to make her teenage years fun and rewarding. To celebrate Rachel’s special day, we planned a party that Rachel has been dreaming of forever. We invited a group of her closest friends for a sunny day at Lagoon, a nearby amusement park.

For the long ride to the park, we surprised her with a stretch Hummer to carry all the party-goers. It was a hit as big as the vehicle itself! David and I drove behind the Hummer all the way to Lagoon, and we could see the flashing neon lights inside the car and at times, we could even hear the music playing. It was quite the party on wheels. At the park, the weather cooperated perfectly for all the rollercoaster riding and hotdog eating the kids could handle. I was impressed by the caliber of these fine teenagers who were so respectful and appreciative of all the fun that came their way.

As I look at the photos taken at the party, I marvel at Rachel—she grew up so quickly! Then I look closer at the photos: Her eyes are the same deep brown stars that twinkled when she was a little girl. Her smile is every bit as playful. And she still adores anything sweet. Rachel, my Rachel: who could have imagined that you would become the sweetest delight of all? I adore YOU!

Love, Mom

18 comments:

  1. Wow! What a super party! That's great to hear how well-mannered the kids were for such a big day!

    I, too, have a dear daughter who just turned 16. We celebrated with her friends with a luau barbeque at our home. It sure did my heart good to see a group of 16-year-old kids playing hula hoop and having a great time. It makes us hopeful that we raised her well!

    Thanks for sharing your party pics! Rachel sure has a high-wattage smile!

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  2. What a fun birthday party. Rachel looks like she had a wonderful time. Love the picture of her sweet, sticky face.

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  3. What a lovely post Jeanette! I feel the same way. I blinked and now my Rachel is already 7 years old, showing her independence and outgoing and bubbly personality. I can only hope and pray she will be as lovely as yours is when she turns 16!!

    Joy Maertens

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  4. Talk about blinking! My fondest memory of sweet Rachel Lynton is from my first DOTS convention...hmmmmmm...back in 1994 when she & her sweet sister came out on stage holding the all new DOTS catalog. Dressed in ruffly dresses & looking as poised as their proud mommy, they stole the show. How fun.
    Hats off to you Jeanette! You done good.
    Aloha nui,
    Sue Laufer

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  5. That can't be Rachel. I remember her as a little girl bringing out our catalogs at convention! She can't be that grown up! She is beautiful!

    Oh, and that banner...could that be a new b&t from an upcoming kit? LOL

    Congrats Mom, you raised a beautiful girl!

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  6. You have a beautiful daughter! I grew up in Utah (Hill AFB) and remember Lagoon well. What a perfect sweet 16 party you planned! The banner is fabulous!

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  7. The time we have with our dear sweet children is so very short. What a joy to spend such a day with your dear sweet daughter!
    I'm sure she will always remember the day you and David blessed her with.

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  8. This is every 16 year old girls dream Birthday Bash! I'm sure she loved every single moment of it and will treasure these moments forever. what a pretty girl she is too, and it sounds as though she has a personality to match which is even more important. You must be very proud!

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  9. Jeanette, you are truly the best mother, Your sweet words bring tears to my eyes to hear how us mother have wishes and dreams for our babies and then we blink and they are sooooo big. Yours and our words are the most precious gifts we can give them. I pray that she cherishes the love you and david have for her and all your beautiful children.
    Congrats on being such a great mother to the teens who are the future!

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  10. You are one rockin' Mom, Jeanette! What a sweet tribute for a sweet 16-year-old. We can't wait to see the layouts you create. Thanks for sharing this glimpse into your family's life.

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  11. Wow... you are the best mom ever! My older daughter will have her golden birthday next year (14 on the 14th) in November and a friend of mine did a scavenger hunt for her daughter so another friend suggested I do the same. I have quite a while to plan it, but I'm thinking you should come to Illinois and help me. What could be better than a CTMH scavenger hunt?

    Your daughter is beautiful and it sounds like she is a lot like her mom.

    Happy birthday to Rachel!

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  12. What a fantastic birthday party! I love the picture of her as a baby--so sweet and sticky.

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  13. What a great party. It looks like it was a blast. Your daughter is beautiful.

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  14. What a party and a half! Beyond cool.

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  15. Wow - she is stunning! Inside and out it sounds like. Good job! :-)

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  16. What a beautiful daughter you have! My oldest daughter is turning 10 next week and I too, say how quickly time has gone. Sometimes, you wish you could stop time, but then again, they grow into such beautiful people! Happy Birthday Rachel!

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  17. Rachel is 16?
    whaaaaaaaat?
    if you blinked then surely I've been comatose when my daughter turned 22! hehe
    How funny that we were just remembering all your cuties as youngins... oh-holy-heck where does the time go?!

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  18. Your sweet message made me cry. I think we all have those 'blinking' moments where our children grow up before our eyes. Rachel has had LOTS of women watching her grow up, and we have enjoyed each time we were able to see the young woman blossoming from that little girl. As I look back on my children and now watching my grand children growing up so fast, I feel so blessed to have been given this opportunity to be a mom and a grandma. You did a beautiful job Jeanette! She is gorgeous! Happy Birthday Rachel! .....now about this dating......

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